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Sexual Experiences in Men with Sickle Cell Disease - a Phenomenological EnquiryTony Duffy, MSc Human Sexuality, Dip. Couns, RMN
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| Delayed sexual development/puberty: | 2 |
| Prolonged detumescence times (where erection subsides very slowly) | 2 |
| Priapism (painful erection) | 2 |
| Erectile problems | 2 |
| Mobility problems (restricting sexual positions/ activity) | 2 |
| Reduced fertility | 2 |
One participant discovered that he was subfertile whilst planning a family.
This was not an issue for other participants as they were not yet concerned
with having a family.
Main Themes:
The following six major themes were highlighted.
1. Restrictions
Sexual activity may have to be 'planned' around the disease leading to a lack of spontaneity.
Partner choice is often restricted because of concerns of passing SCD to their children.
Sexual activity/positions restricted both directly and indirectly due to pain or disease complications.
2. Sex and pain
Some men experienced painful erections which required hospital treatment.
Crises may be induced during sexual activity
Disease complications i.e. arthritis, leg ulcers can cause pain during sexual activity.
3. Monitoring
Monitoring of self, others and the disease in sexual/relationship situations becomes a form of distraction and may detract from the pursuit and enjoyment of sexual situations.
4. Loss of control/dependency
The impact of the disease often leads men to feel that they had very little control over their bodies and that during crises they became dependent on others. This may raise issues in terms of self-image, male role expectations and masculinity.
5. Self-disclosure re: disease status
Often the make-or-break point in some relationships
Participants discussed the difficulties of whether, how and when to tell partners about their condition. This was important to assess the partner's Sickle status and to see how they would feel about developing a relationship with a man with SCD.
6. Lack of information
All participants discussed that they were unaware of any literature or information
regarding the sexual/ relationship aspects of Sickle Cell Disease.
These issues are rarely or never discussed at Support Groups.
'They talk about a lot of things, but they don't talk
about THAT'"
Overall, the results highlight the sexual and relationship problems that some men with SCD may experience. Because there is a lack of information on this aspect of the disease, the Sickle Cell Society is currently looking into expanding the level of information on this subject on this website and through factsheets.
For further information, or to contact Tony Duffy please ask Barbara Brewster at the Sickle Cell Society.
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